Today, my daughter texted me from a place of deep pain.
Her words were raw, heavy, unfiltered:
“I feel broken, hopeless. I see no real point in human existence.
I wish I was strong enough to end it, but there’s a subconscious will to keep going—and I hate
it.”

We live in a world that responds to mental illness with “just try yoga,” or “think happy
thoughts,” or “get outside more.”
Can you imagine saying the same to someone with a broken leg?
Or to someone having a stroke?
Or with high blood pressure: “Just relax.”

We wouldn’t. Because we know those conditions are real, not just a matter of willpower.

And yet we minimize emotional pain. We tiptoe around suffering. We label it as weakness.
When in truth, it’s often the strongest among us who feel it most.

Mind. Body. Soul.

Sometimes it’s situational—a divorce, a loss, a stretch of stress that frays the nervous system.
Sometimes it’s biological—a misfiring of neurotransmitters, a hormonal storm.
And sometimes… it’s soul-deep. A disconnection from meaning. From purpose. From self.

There is no single answer.
Only a combination of care:
 Creating safe environments
 Supporting the physical body—nutrition, rest, movement
 Tending to the soul—connection, truth, and the deep work of listening

We Are All the Golden Buddha

There’s a parable I love—about a Golden Buddha in Thailand.
Covered in clay to protect it from invaders, it sat hidden for centuries.
One day, a crack revealed what was underneath: solid gold.
That story stays with me.
Because we are all that Buddha.
Life coats us with fear, trauma, grief, shame.
It convinces us we are the clay—hardened, dull, unworthy.
But beneath the layers, we are gold.
Every one of us.
Even when we can’t see it.
Even when someone we love can’t feel it.
Even when they’re convinced they are broken, or empty, or evil.
The gold remains.

To Anyone Hurting—Or Loving Someone Who Is

Not with answers.
But with presence.
With your steady breath, your soft voice, and the reminder:
You are not alone.
This is not the end.
And beneath it all… your soul is still shining.”

 About the Author

If this message spoke to you—if you’re holding space for someone else, or longing to feel more balanced within—I’d love to connect.

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You are never alone. And you are always enough.

If You or Someone You Love Is Struggling

You are not alone, and there is help.

National Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (U.S.) – Dial or text 988
Available 24/7 for confidential support
 Crisis Text Line – Text HELLO to 741741
Free, 24/7 support from trained crisis counselors
 NAMI HelpLine – 1-800-950-NAMI (6264) or text “HelpLine” to 62640
Support for individuals and families facing mental illness
 For those outside the U.S., visit: www.befrienders.org
to find emotional support in your country

Please don’t carry this alone. There are people who want to walk with you.